Showing posts with label Grown Folks Talk. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Grown Folks Talk. Show all posts

Friday, May 27, 2011

The FUCKING SHOW GOES ON. If you fuck with me, yesteday's mistake is FORGIVABLE.

You don't? You already know what to do. One less nigga- NWA. Dead ass. Thank you for those who respectively pointed out the mistake. And Pops is resting. Not 'fine' but resting. Thanks for asking.

I made a mistake. I can own up to it. Lets not crazy though. @ the comments. I will respond. Got a lot of shit going on. Be easy ni##a.

Thursday, May 26, 2011

I hear a 'discussion' coming on when the World gets a whiff of this trailer.. "Dark Girls" Preview...video



Which I don't mind except I KNOW THE FINGER POINTING WILL START. The absolutes. The bullshit. On both sides. Hopefully, we can have a REASONABLE discussion on it. Then again, we can't 'discuss' a lot of things.

Friday, May 13, 2011

Speculation: The game EVERYONE CAN PLAY.....I made this tweet earlier




Now by 'definition' the form of the word I am talking about is 'speculating' but that wouldn't have been catchy...


Speculating-  Form a theory or conjecture about a subject without firm evidence.

OUTTA NOWHERE AND LOST A GANG OF FOLLOWERS. Which I found funny....I was actually going to make this post on the subject but I wanted to see the 'response' to the phrase. It is just as I thought.


I was going to me NICE and say some folks do it but judging by that unfollowing spree folks went on, I have to go ahead and say MOST PEOPLE do it to a fault. Now we all do it, so I am not saying it like I am exempt from doing it. I am strictly speaking on the folks that do it to a fault. That do it so much that they think they can 'take liberties to do it all the time and call it fact.' Those are the folks I am talking about when I say 'the game we all can play'. 

Many times, there are those of us who LOVE TO PUT OURSELVES in the place of someone who is in a position that we have NEVER EVEN BEEN CLOSE TO BEING IN DURING ANY POINT OF OUR LIVES EVEN ON A SMALL SCALE and then get to waxing philosophical about what that person is thinking, feeling OR how they are gonna act in the future, what they are feeling currently or how or what that person is made of inside. Or even if we have done it we love to put what we would do on someone else. OR MY PERSONAL FAVORITE, TAKING WHAT WE WOULD 'LIKE TO BE TRUE' AND FINDING A BUNCH OF SILLY 'INDICATORS' TO BUILD A CASE TO 'MAKE IT TRUE'.




Before you say 'That's not fair! What else am I supposed to do? I mean I only know WHAT MY EXPERIENCE IS!" let me hold you up right there. This ISN'T ABOUT YOU in that fashion. It is about that person in the situation. Furthermore, MANY MANY MANY MANY MANY TIMES, NONE OF US HAVE ENOUGH INFORMATION TO MAKE ANY TYPE OF FAIR ASSESSMENT OF THINGS to begin with. I think that is the one that I REALLY think is silly. This notion that because we 'can have an opinion' on an issue, that we SHOULD HAVE ONE and the way it has led to us playing the 'Game of Speculation'. 



Why does is this an issue? It is SIMPLE. I mean it is one thing to speculate about Lebron and Delonte or Pau and Kobe but UNFORTUNATELY, this bullshit mentality carries over to REAL LIFE SITUATIONS.  You SAME FOLKS who seem to WHOLEHEARTEDLY believe the two issues up top are the same bamma ass people who keep up 'the drama' in your circle of friends and in life in general. All you need to hear is a 'hint' of 'scandal' and you get to running your mouth. Spreading that 'hint' around like it is the gospel. On that 'Where there is smoke there is fire' shit but you are the one rubbing the sticks together to make the 'smoke'. THAT'S MY ISSUE WITH IT. Are we THAT pressed with 'knowing whose shit stinks' first that we have to stoop to 'spreading rumors', going off half cocked with misinformation and generally stirring up the pot like a bunch of bitter bitches that we have to 'play the speculation game'? Really?




ESPECIALLY YOU DUDES OUT HERE. I see you out here in these streets. Acting like little girls and shit. Whispering about this and that. Running with rumors. Kee kee keeing in the background. 'Speculating' on what you would do if you were such and such but ALMOST WITHOUT FAIL, DOING THE EXACT OPPOSITE OF THE SHIT YOU SAID YOU WOULDN'T DO WHEN YOU GET IN THE SITUATION. I see you. Offering up excuses but CLOWNING FOLKS HARD FOR NOT DOING WHAT YOU 'THINK THEY SHOULD DO'. Not that the girls are exempt from being criticized here but you OUT OF ALL PEOPLE SHOULD KNOW BETTER IF YOU CALL YOURSELF A MAN. Men don't do that shit dog. Sorry. 



The kicker is, some of you SHEEPLE out here follow behind the person who starts/supports this bullshit EVERY TIME. That is, until the 'speculation' is about you or someone you like. Then its a whole lotta 'I can't clap to that..." Funny 'cause you didn't mind taking liberties with others. What's good for the goose.....I can't stand to listen to someone 'playing the speculation game' and passing it off as the 'gospel according to them'. I know SEVERAL PEOPLE MAKING A LIVING OFF OF THIS HUSTLE AND I THINK IT IS SAD. 

What is the difference between that and 'voicing your opinion'? - You

Here is the difference. Usually when one gives their opinion, they give it 'humbly' and concede that there may be some 'wrong' in it. They concede that it not 'the gospel' but the MERE STATEMENT OF 'In my opinion'...That's the difference. I am not talking about that. I am talking about folks that start off with 'If you think that what I am saying isn't correct, then you are a ...." or those type of SELF SERVING STATEMENTS on things that NONE OF US KNOW FOR SURE ABOUT. That's the difference. Both are not concrete but one is not pretending to be better than anything that anyone is offering up while the other is a pompous proclamation of an attempt to be ahead of everyone else in being 'right'. 'Cause some mofosmofo who is used to 'leading people around by the nose' with his/her good speculation on their bullshit. They will try you too. Make you think that 'you are mad' 'cause you see through their bullshit.  HIGH FUCKING COMEDY. Hats off to you cats who pull this shit off and have parlayed it into something profitable for yourselves. Truly. I laugh with you a lot. I laugh AT YOU WAY MORE THOUGH. 'Cause you are WRONG A WHOLE FUCKING LOT more than anyone EVER NOTICES. I notice though. You saying 'I've been wrong before' doesn't diminish the fact that you are 'over confident' with speculation and that it is wrong. But hey...keep making that money chief. Just know I know...I see you and you already know if you come BARKING THIS WAY what it is gonna be. 



So there you go. Some more clarification on what I meant by that tweet. Even if you didn't see it, now you know how I feel about it. I don't expect you to say 'Hey dog you are right!'. I don't care actually. I know I am. Shit is sad. Again, we all do it to some degree but some of you out here are taking it WAY TOO FAR.

I'm just here to call you on it...


Oh yeah..while I am up here, 'cause I know some of you think I am up on my horse and shit, let me address ANOTHER TWEET I MADE in regards to me 'judging you' if you don't certain things YET WANT TO COME 'CHALLENGE MY OPINIONS'. Again, I don't 'force my opinions' on folks as the truth but at the same time, I try to use these things called FACTS when I give my opinions. Not speculation. Not rumor. FACTS. I have a lot of you who are running up on me with 'What my brother/sister told me' opinions on things/situations/etc that I know 'facts' on 'cause I was living it. Stop it. Please. That's what that tweet meant. It was simple. The more I see some of you don't know, the more I can't respect your opinion on it 'cause you CLEARLY DON'T KNOW THE ERA AS WELL AS YOU BEEN FRAUDING TO. That's it. I can EVEN RESPECT IT IF YOU RESEARCHED IT TO THE POINT THAT YOU DO KNOW THE ERA. I don't need you to have been 'alive and not 8' to have a discussion with you. No. What I do need you to know is that Oprah smoked crack, that Pun beat his wife, that Zev Love X formed KMD (and thus some of us REMEMBER HIM FROM THAT..) and all the other little things that one would KNOW without having to Google because they were alive and fully aware of hip hop at the time. In the event that you DON'T, that's cool. We can still discuss it BUT REMEMBER that you can't 'tell me' (or anyone else who lived through that era) about it 'cause....well...we lived it. Got it? Good. 'Cause a lot of you keep acting like you don't know that and want to debate shit that quite honestly, ISN'T DEBATABLE. We had good hip hop. We had trashy hip hop and not just Ice Ice Baby. All rap wasn't deep and it MOST CERTAINLY WAS NOT PLAYED ON THE RADIO AT 1 PM IN THE AFTERNOON OR EVEN IN THE MORNING ON THE RADIO. I know I sound like an ass but I don't care. There is no other way for me to say this. Stop it. Just like I wouldn't DARE tell my parents about their music (even though I am a HUGE FAN OF IT and know a lot about it. ) 'CAUSE THEY WERE ALIVE WHEN THE SHIT CAME OUT. They LIVED THAT TIME PERIOD. They know the vibe that was going on. They were the fans then! How could I?

Monday, May 9, 2011

Some of ya'll would be ROYALLY FUCKED if your Grandmother thought like this...

I don't blame her. Fuck all that bickering and beef- Biggie off of Who Shot Ya?

Dammed if you do...dammed if you don't..Chris Bosh on his performance and his nerves..



I just 'love' how critical people are of this cat. I mean, these are some of the same people who can't EVEN SPEAK PUBLICLY IN FRONT OF GROUP OF PEOPLE LARGER THAN TEN, spouting off about what type of 'bitch/pussy/insert your favorite insult at him over ADMITTING WHAT WE ALREADY KNEW.

Why? 

Is it so that you can CONTINUE TO RIDICULE HIM with your fake ass bullshit about how 'clueless' he is? Does him 'admitting' ruin your little fun? Poor little bitchass ninjas...@ it ruining your fun. No fun when you can't 'speculate' your way through a subject or say he doesn't even 'realize it'. 

Is it because you are a Neanderthal? You still dragging your knuckles on the ground? I mean the man was CLEARLY shook. Him admitting it doesn't change the fact that he shit a brick against KG. He KNOWS IT. He is owning up to it. Isn't that what you MORONS OUT HERE WANT? Honesty? Oh wait...you only want honesty when it is CONVENIENT? Please don't put your 'thought pattern' on me. I don't think like that. I am not a hypocrite in that way. 

Look, I would rather have a cat ADMIT HE HAS AN ISSUE so we (the organization) can help him through it. Stakes are high. No one has time to be fooling around 'guessing' if someone is aight the way you cats run around brooding in your relationships. No wonder you fail at shit if that is how you handle things. @ keeping things all bottled up. Let that shit out. He let it out, they can talk shit to him to get him back to where he needs to be and they can move on. Instead of him 'manning up' by being silent, still playing like shit on a stick BECAUSE OF IT,  (I am not saying he won't play bad but if they FIX THIS ISSUE it won't be because of this.)  by actually TALKING ABOUT IT, YOU CAN (GASP) SOLVE THE PROBLEM. 

I know what we were taught when were little. Trust me. Never let 'em see you (sweat, cry, break down, whatever). How is that working out for all you fools out here wilding out though? Holding all that pain in? You see what happened when Ron Artest STARTING SEEKING HELP right? (and stuck to it. I believe he doesn't go anymore if I am not mistaken. Correct me if I am wrong..) 

Bosh admitting he was nervous is just that. An admission. Not an excuse. I know how some of you are though. When you don't 'like' someone's reason for doing something, you say it is an excuse. Funny though 'cause when your favorite says that (or hell even YOU), it is a 'reason'. I see you out there. Like you or your favorite (insert title) are the only people ON EARTH that do things with a 'reason' and everyone else is offering up 'excuses'.  I heard that plair....

That said, it is a BAD REASON. He HAS TO RECTIFY THAT. (Oh you thought because I was arguing it that I was saying it was okay? Again, I am not you or one of your boys. Stop that. If that is what you do, cool. I don't.)  We will see if he does.....

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

When someone puts up an EMBEDDED CODE for their video....

THEY WANT YOU TO USE IT AND SPREAD THE WORD. Just an FYI for those of you who don't 'get how this whole thing' works. I know that some of you profess to do 'this and that' but yeah...Unless YOU WERE THERE, you are 'second hand sourcing shit too'. Just so you know. Now I read what some of you 'write', what some of you 'tweet' at how you hate people who 'copy and paste' shit but the truth of the matter is that even YOUR SOURCE in most cases has done the same. They just took the time to 'reword' some of the shit. I have had SHIT OF MINE TAKEN AND HAD MAJOR MOTHERFUCKERS 'REWRITE' MY SHIT put it out an hour after I put it up in 'my own words' and turned around and had some of you SAME DUMB MOTHERFUCKERS say I stole it from them. Just so you know. So miss me ALL THE WAY WITH THAT 'COPY AND PASTE' shit. Its been done to me by SOME OF YOU. Don't think I haven't seen it. Its okay too because THIS IS THE GAME THAT WE PLAY. It is TRULY PAR FOR THE COURSE. @ the copy and paste. Some of us have the respect of others that some of us JUST DON'T HAVE. Its life. As long as the info gets out right? Right? Oh......

It is funny though 'cause when YOUR FAVORITE 'popular tweeter' discusses this shit, you ALL ACT LIKE HE/SHE is the first person with the information AS THEY READ IT FROM AN ARTICLE WRITTEN BY SOMEONE ELSE. What. Par.  Of. The. Game. Is. That? But everyone else does the 'copy and paste' and they are suckers? FOH.

Don't even get me STARTED on some of my 'ideals' and thoughts on certain things. I say it, ya'll read it and say 'OH..okay.." Someone 'bigger' says it and it is shades of  "Oh you just stole that from such and such.' like I DIDN'T TYPE THE SHIT WEEKS BEFORE THEY PUBLICLY MADE THEIR CASE. Yeah homie? Really? I mean I get it, some of you just don't FUCK WITH INTELLIGENT FOLKS SO WHEN MORE THAN ONE PERSON SPEAKS ON A SUBJECT AND IT SOUNDS FAMILIAR YOU CAN'T GRASP THE CONCEPT THAT MORE THAN ONE PERSON COULD THINK LIKE THAT. Still and all that shit is FRUSTRATING to a nigga 'cause now I have to compensate for YOUR SHORTCOMINGS. Unbelievable. Step your friends circle up or better still STEP YOUR INTELLIGENCE GAME UP. More than one person can have a thought that MAKES SENSE than your 'favorite person'. Deal with it.

I mean I put it to you like this..If your favorite person is 'SO SMART', WHY THE FUCK AREN'T THEY OUT HERE CURING CANCER? Why the fuck are they EVER WRONG and how do you let them get away with it? Riddle me that one. Quit acting like your 'favorite' isn't above reproach and that 'those deflective jokes' they make as the bob and weave through the times that they do fuck up makes up for the fact that they are WRONG. A lot. Please quit insulting me. To be fair...I LIKE SOME OF YA'LLS FAVORITES TOO. They are some of my favorites. Doesn't mean they aren't wrong though. 

While I am up here, ya'll aren't gonna do much but you are gonna STOP TAKING ADVICE STRICTLY FROM GUYS AND GALS WITH NO MAN or no commitment in sight. Correction, you are gonna stop taking their word as the ONLY WORD THAT IS RIGHT. You can take advice 'cause quite frankly good advice can come from those who have fucked up as well as though who have succeeded (If you are under a certain age, I am not arguing with you about this. You don't KNOW ENOUGH YOUNG BUCK. SORRY. HOLLER AT ME WHEN YOU LIVE LONGER. We all thought listening to the success stories was 'the way to go'. Until today's success stories turned into tomorrow's fuck up...I digress though..)  I don't wanna hear about that 'by choice' shit either. If you aren't doing it, I don't wanna hear from you so much. Sorry. If you 'failed at it', I don't wanna hear from you so much. Almost getting there doesn't count partner. Sorry. I mean I know cats like to 'identify' with certain folks...to have folks who feel their pain..but THAT DOESN'T MAKE YOUR IDEALS AND THEORIES correct. Sorry pal. It just makes the group of 'We almost did it but it isn't for me...aka I FAILED AT THAT SHIT MISERABLY SON...' that much larger. I should say I am only talking to a select few of you in this group. You know the ones that CONSTANTLY FEEL THE NEED TO 'SPEAK ON RELATIONSHIPS' ON ONE HAND WHILE CLAIMING 'I'LL NEVER BE IN ONE AGAIN..' ON THE OTHER HAND. Its like watching a TV program that you don't like. Pick up the remote nigga. Change the channel. No one is forcing you to watch and you shitting on others for watching it is the LAMEST OF THE LAME THINGS YOU CAN DO. Especially if you 'failed at it'. Yeah I said it. I would 'tell you how to do it' but IT ISN'T THAT SIMPLE. This isn't hitting a baseball my nig. It is complicated and it isn't perfect. Yet, because some of you want it to be that way, you diss it because it isn't. @ maintaining any relationship with someone. I see you out there. All hurt the fuck up. Running around with your imperfect self, pointing out others imperfections in relationship to make you and your group 'feel better about being alone'. By alone I mean, playing that wonderful game of chasing pussy/dick that some of 'you love to glorify'. I read them LONELY ASS TWEETS AND FACEBOOK STATUSES THOUGH. I hear the 'call of lonely' from you in them bitter ass statements you make. The pain in your font when recount 'the time such and such did that 'thing' to you'. I see you partner. All the money, hoes and the 'rest of what you have' can't hide that when that shit comes up. I see you. Even if your 'sheep' don't see it as a weakness. Go ahead though. Hide behind them 'canned jokes' you have. Those names you have for those that have WHAT YOU CLEARLY WANT. Keep carrying that baggage my nig/niggettes. On that Badu....